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“What is it like to be coached by Jordin?  Essentially, she pulls out the gems of yourself and presents them back to you with reverence. You may be both awed by your own brilliance and yet dismayed that you could not find it on your own. But that is why Jordin is here; to shepherd us back to the wisdom within.”

—MJ V

“I have been amazed at the depth of insight I’ve received while practicing life coaching with Jordin.  Her ability to pull new information from me and use this to help me see my hidden motivations has helped me tremendously.  Having worked my entire life with many styles of therapists and coaches, I can say I have never looked forward to sessions like I look forward to my next appointment with Jordin.  I initially hesitated at the idea of a virtual meeting but have found this method of session work to be extremely convenient and every bit or even more productive to in-person sessions.”

—Dave S.

“During my work with Jordin I experienced a profound transformation in my own relationship with myself. I resolved the cognitive dissonance and came to a place of surrender and acceptance regarding my past, and a place of determined responsibility and integrity about my present and future. I could have not predicted the spiritual awakening that was going to occur during my unraveling but now I see that it had to be this way. Now I’m seeing changes/results in the outside world because of the new way I’m showing up.”

—Preston Swirnoff

“There's no pressure, shame, or gimmicks. If you came here to really do the work, that's what will happen. Jordin will gently guide you to the answers, which are all inside of you. If she can help in any way outside of holding space for you, she'll go above and beyond to do it. You won't regret working with her.

Through her own experience with the different parts of herself, Jordin has helped me become more comfortable with parts of me that were exiled many years ago. Acknowledging and validating these parts has helped my self-esteem, self-love, and my ability to be my own friend. Jordin has been an integral part of this and I wouldn't be at this point in my life if it wasn't for her. She will push you out of your comfort zone, gently, all while empathizing with your journey. She is an amazing coach, period.”

—Jada Bates, Coach, @jada_._b (tiktok)

“Jordin has the right empathy and is able to connect so well while moving the healing forward. I recommend her for anyone who wants to change their circumstances for the better.”

—Ambalica Angra

“You will be changed forever. If you enter this container with an open heart, your life will never be the same. That this container, and working with Jordin James will shake you to your core, in the most beautiful way possible. Jordin's coaching, and guidance is a gift to this world, and working with Jordin means liberating your inner world. It means that you get to find love within, that even in the darkest moments you will find an inner leader that can hold you, love you. If you work with Jordin you will build the type of inner resilience and freedom that will move you from surviving to thriving.”

—Stephanie Padon

“I recommend Jordin to anyone searching for themselves or answers. Who feels unworthy of great things. For those that are tired of the charade, putting up a front and pretending their way through life. She’s more than you'd ever expect and well worth the investment into yourself.

Jordin went above and beyond to make me feel comfortable. Also, I was surprised by the amount of energy she seemed to be putting in outside of our sessions.”

—Garrett Swaim

“After Jordin’s coaching I can move forward without spinning and spinning in the same suffering place...and move forward WITH peace and love right next to me, regardless of the phase may be unfolding before me. Talk about making something impossible POSSIBLE!! Wow.

I've also benefitted from knowing Jordin PERIOD. Jordin truly is one the first people I've talked with that went as deep as needed to talk to my parts, and speak their language. I mean...I’m so grateful for this...beyond words!

To anyone thinking of coaching with Jordin, just know you're going to ball your eyes out when it's time to 'graduate'. You're not going to want it to END.”

—Shellie J.

“The relationship I have with all my parts, my Essence, my feelings, my experiences and myself in general is deeper than it's ever been. This means that I'm finding it so much easier to trust myself, to feel grounded and confident, to turn inwards for my own inner wisdom, to be able to surrender to all the uncertainty in life and feel safe in that and to have a radically different experience of life. It means I'm finally feeling confident about how to run my business in a way that feels good (something that I struggled with for a while), my relationships have improved, I feel less daunted by health issues and just feel better in myself.”

- Jess Maxwell, Somatic Healing Guide, @_jessmaxwell

“During my time with Jordin I turned in my retirement papers and gained a voice in the most significant relationships in my life.

I’ve become a stable person, something I never believed I could be. I'm being a friend to others. I'm not afraid to look at myself more closely or to allow myself to feel things that seem difficult or messy.

*cries* I haven't experienced someone being my friend on such a level. I want this for myself, for you and for everyone. I have something good to finally look back and remember so I can move forward.”

—Shelly R.

My journey to inner peace was littered with betrayal.

For instance, childhood was less than ideal. You know the drill: divorce, alcoholism, unstable living, existential loneliness haunting you around the playground...By sixteen, I was self-harming, depressed, and contemplating suicide.

Parents betray. And yet, what do we do with the rupture of our unpredictable childhoods? We ignore it. Forge ahead. Become a moving target. Resilient little fuckers aren't we?

So I hung on, got the impressive engineering degree, landed the fancy new job, found the man, got hitched, and bought a house. But I didn’t belong in my engineering career and it sucked the life out of me.

Society’s ideals of success betray. And yet, what do we do with the reality of our disappointing career? We take a risk. Forge ahead. Become a beacon of strength. Adaptable little go-getters aren’t we? 

So I gathered my courage, walked into my boss’s office—literally trembling—and quit... Six months later while building my business, I discovered my husband was cheating on me.

Lovers betray. And what do we do in the wake of our broken heart? We curl into the fetal position. Stop forging ahead. Become a hollow version of our previous self. Tender little creatures aren’t we?

In less than a year, I went from being a happily married woman with a successful engineering job and a cozy home to divorced, struggling to build my coaching business, and sleeping on my own guest bed in my friend’s loft.

We betray ourselves. All our forging ahead leads us straight into a life we never wanted in the first place. 

In the midst of our broken promises, we’re left asking ourselves, “Is there hope? Where did I go wrong? Is it too late to be happy?”

These are the questions we’re left with when the positive affirmations and bubble baths stop working, when the success we crave turns out to be just as hollow as everything else we’ve used to self-medicate, and when all our clever skills that got us here aren’t enough to get us there.

So at some point, instead of “forging ahead”...

We must turn around, outstretch our arms, and fumble our way through our inner darkness.

This is where we find the parts of ourselves we’ve abandoned. This is where we discover what we really want and how to finally get it. This is the road to happiness. 

This was my quest. And now it’s yours too. 

Are you ready to experience the happiness and wholeness you’ve been craving your entire life?